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10,000 Steps a Day Is a Myth: The Pressure to Always Do More Is What’s Breaking Us
We’ve been told that hitting 10,000 steps a day is the gold standard for health, but where did that number even come from? This newsletter unpacks the truth behind the step-count myth, revealing how a marketing slogan turned into a rule we now shame ourselves over. More importantly, we’ll explore the quiet damage of always pushing for “more”, more movement, more discipline, more results, at the cost of energy, joy, and balance. It’s time to rethink what real wellness looks like, and how to pursue it without burning out.
The phrase “10,000 steps a day” has become a modern gospel for health seekers. It’s plastered on fitness apps, health trackers, and wellness blogs. It sounds simple, scientific, and universally achievable. But here’s the raw truth:
the 10,000-step rule is not grounded in science, it’s grounded in marketing.
In the 1960s, a Japanese company (Yamasa Clock and Instrument Co.) launched a pedometer named Manpo-kei, which translates to “10,000 steps meter.” The number wasn’t based on physiological studies, it was chosen because it sounded memorable and culturally significant. The Japanese character for 10,000 (万) resembles a person walking. The device and its catchy goal helped sell pedometers, not promote longevity.
Yet somehow, this arbitrary number seeped into Western public health recommendations, cementing itself as a benchmark for success. Decades later, we’re still gripping onto it like it’s the holy grail of movement.
It’s time to dismantle the myth.
We have to accept the reality that more isn’t always better
For many people, especially those juggling demanding careers, caretaking responsibilities, chronic health conditions, or mental health challenges, the pressure to meet an arbitrary step goal is not motivating. It’s defeating. Instead of inspiring consistency, it can induce shame, exhaustion, and guilt.
We’ve internalized a toxic narrative:
If you’re not exhausted, you’re not doing enough. If you didn’t hit 10,000 steps, you failed.
This mindset is what’s breaking us, not just physically, but emotionally.
Recent studies challenge the 10k threshold as the gold standard:
A 2021 meta-analysis published in JAMA Network Open found that taking 7,000 steps per day was associated with a 50–70% lower risk of mortality compared with taking fewer than 5,000 steps per day. Mortality benefits plateaued after 7,500 steps, especially among older adults (Paluch et al., 2021).
A 2019 study in The Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA Internal Medicine) showed that women who walked 4,400 steps per day had significantly lower mortality rates compared to those who walked only 2,700 steps, with no added benefits beyond 7,500 steps (Lee et al., 2019).
A 2022 analysis in Lancet Public Health noted that the optimum step count for lowering all-cause mortality in adults aged 60+ was around 6,000–8,000 steps per day, again disproving the 10k rule as universally necessary.
More steps can even be counterproductive. Without adequate rest and recovery, excessive movement can increase cortisol, promote inflammatory stress, and cause wear and tear on joints, especially among aging populations and those with pre-existing conditions.
Outgrow the lesson that movement = morality

We’ve been conditioned to believe that movement equates to morality. That walking less means you’re lazy. That resting means you’re weak.
This belief system disproportionately impacts women, neurodivergent individuals, aging adults, and those in larger bodies, groups already under constant societal surveillance for how they "should" show up in wellness spaces.
When a number becomes the measure of your worth, you detach from the true signals of your body:
Are you sleeping better?
Are you digesting well?
Is your heart rate recovering faster?
Is your anxiety lower?
Do you feel mentally clearer, more emotionally resilient?
These are real markers of wellness, not just a glowing number on your wrist.
You’re probably tired of hearing this, but we won’t shut up about the science of sustainable movement
From a physiological perspective, how you move matters more than how much you move.
Short, intentional movement practiced consistently can be more beneficial than marathon fitness sessions. This is not just theory, it’s science.
A 2021 study from the European Journal of Preventive Cardiology found that breaking up long periods of sitting with light walking every 30 minutes significantly improved insulin sensitivity and cardiovascular health.
Gentle movement like post-meal walks (even just 10 minutes) can help reduce postprandial blood glucose levels, as proven in a 2022 meta-analysis in Sports Medicine.
Three 10-minute walks spread across the day can provide similar or greater benefits than one 30-minute walk, especially when targeting blood sugar, mental clarity, and inflammation regulation.
I’ve worked with elite athletes, burned-out executives, postpartum mothers, and autoimmune warriors. Their most successful transformations never came from obsessively chasing data, but from learning to listen, feel, and respond to their bodies.
Let’s consider the mental health toll of “Always Doing More”
Globally, rates of depression, anxiety, and burnout are surging. And despite its good intentions, the modern fitness industry has become a contributor to this crisis.
We glorify hustle. We idolize the grind.
But we rarely pause to ask: at what cost?

Movement should regulate, not punish, the nervous system.
Chronic over-exercising, step-count obsession, and sleep sacrifice in the name of “discipline” can actually disrupt hormonal balance, increase inflammation, and worsen mental health outcomes (Harvard Medical School, 2023).
If you’re skipping connection with loved ones just to get in extra steps…
If you’re ignoring body cues like fatigue, pain, or hunger…
If you feel guilty instead of grateful after moving…
That’s not wellness. That’s dysregulation disguised as discipline.
Here’s our advise, follow these actionable, evidence-based suggestions
If you're ready to break free from the 10,000-step pressure, here’s where to start:
1. Reframe Movement as Medicine, Not Math
Instead of chasing a number, ask:
“What movement would nourish me right now?”
Start with 10–20 minutes of joyful movement: walking the dog, dancing in the kitchen, stretching to music, or gardening.
2. Create Movement Touchpoints
Use movement snacks to break up long sitting spells. Every hour, stand and stretch, do calf raises, shoulder rolls, or a 2-minute walk. Even micro-movements trigger circulation and metabolic activation.
3. Sync with Your Circadian Rhythm
Morning and early evening walks optimize cortisol balance, melatonin production, and metabolic regulation. Just 2,000–5,000 steps with intentional pacing and mindfulness can activate profound physiological changes.
4. Respect the Role of Recovery
Recovery is not a luxury, it’s a biological requirement. Overtraining without proper rest raises CRP (C-reactive protein) and interleukin-6, both markers of systemic inflammation. Respect your rest as much as your reps.
5. Ditch the All-Or-Nothing Mindset
Health is not about perfection. You don’t need to hit the same number every day. Bodies are cyclical, adaptive, and hormonally dynamic.
Give yourself permission to be fluid, responsive, and intuitive.
You need to choose freedom over fear, for a life that is lived and not survived
Let’s shift from performative wellness to functional well-being.
Let’s teach our children and clients that health is not a step-count, it's energy, resilience, joy, and presence.

You are not failing because you didn’t hit 10,000 steps.
You are healing when you choose:
✅ To move with intention
✅ To rest without guilt
✅ To listen to your body without judgment
That’s real progress.
That’s true health, and it’s worth celebrating.
✨ Ready to break the cycle of burnout, inflammation, and all-or-nothing thinking?
Join the 12-Week Metabolic Reset System, a science-backed, sustainable journey to reclaim your energy, rebalance your hormones, and rebuild your body from the inside out.
You don’t need another tracker, you need a transformation. Let’s begin.
